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21 " The one who does not have any conflicts through his mind, for him the worldly life has diminished (to zero). "
― Dada Bhagwan , Life Without Conflict
22 " The one, who destroys his mistakes, is said to have achieved the highest well-being (to get liberated). "
23 " The one who destroys his mistakes is God. "
24 " You will find people to point out your mistakes, but you will not find people who will destroy your mistakes. "
25 " What is considered as Purusharth (real spiritual effort to progress as the Self)? It is when there is a sense of independence (swatantrapanu), there is Self-dependency (Swa-dhin), there is no dependency on external factors (paradhin). Whereas here, work is only done when other circumstances come together. That which happens subject to scientific circumstantial evidences is prarabdh (an effect of past life karma). "
26 " Punyanubandhi punya (unfolding merit karma that binds new merit karma) can help you meet a Gnani Purush (the Self-realized One, who can help others attain Self-realization). "
27 " The restrain (saiyam) of kashay (anger-pride-deceit-greed) is called as saiyam [inner control]. "
28 " To know gneya-gnan (the knowledge regarding the object to be known) is referred to as scriptural knowledge and to Know Gnata-Gnan (the Knowledge regarding the Knower) is referred to as experiential Knowledge (anubhav Gnan). "
29 " There should not be anything lacking in your Nischay. However, if anything remains lacking in your vyavahaar (worldly interaction), then that is indeed considered a mistake. If imperfection remains in your vyavahaar then your Nischay will also become imperfect. "
30 " You should never have suspicion about anyone in this world; not even if it is true. It is a terrible offence to have suspicion about someone. "
31 " There is no solution for suspicions. There is solution for real facts. There can never be a solution for suspicions. "
32 " If one does not know how to read the account (karmic) book, then he will start to have doubts, and doubts lead to unhappiness. "
33 " We believe that this is ‘our’ home and ‘our’ family. No, it is a ‘shop’ for us to settle our karmas. It is like a customer-businessman relationship. "
34 " External conflicts lasts one life and Internal conflicts may last for hundreds of life times. They may even last for thousands of life times. "
35 " What causes Conflict? Agnan (Delusionary knowledge, Knowledge other than the True Self). "
36 " Nowadays most of the quarrels at home arise from suspicions. Suspicions create vibrations which create a blazing fire. And if one becomes suspicion free, the fire will extinguish on its own. How can the flames be put out if both parties are suspicious? There is no choice but for one of the two to become suspicion free "
37 " Concentration (ekagrata) is that which is with egoism,whereas meditation (dhyan) is that which remains untouched (nirlep) by the ego. "
38 " No one is an independent doer of this world, but rather an instrumental doer. No 'wholesale' doer has ever been born. Even the Lord is not the doer of this world. If the Lord were to become the doer, then He would have to become the sufferer! "
39 " The wife and children have come under our shelter. How can we hurt those who have come under our shelter (and support)? We cannot hurt those who are dependent upon us even if they are at fault. "
40 " Our opinion is, 'Nobody is at fault.' If someone appears to be at fault, then that is our weakness. The fact that you see somebody at fault is indeed your state as the prakruti (with the belief that, 'I am the non-Self complex'). By remaining in the inherent state as the Self (apramatt bhaav) the world will be Seen as flawless and You will experience the kind of bliss that existed during the reign of Lord Rama! One has to come into One's inherent state as the Self (apramatt) permanently! "