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61 " If the other person makes a mistake, it has no value; but if a clash occurs (with someone), there are serious consequences. God does not exist where there is clash. "
― Dada Bhagwan , Life Without Conflict
62 " Where difference of opinions arises, to retract our words is a sign of a wise man. "
63 " When we believe that the difference of opinion occurs due to only our own mistake; then we will reach the end of the worldly life. There is no other solution. To solve is our a hidden egoism. Why do you have to look for a solution? "
64 " That which is never contradictory at all is referred to as nature. When '2H' and 'O' come together along with certain other circumstances, then it will only form water, oil will not be formed. "
65 " For dispassion of worldly life (vairaag) one requires experiential Knowledge; it will not do if one goes about it baselessly! "
66 " If we create an environment where someone is hurt, then it will create Conflict (affliction) within us. "
67 " When you are seated in your home with a long face, that is called a conflict. "
68 " In the worldly life, what is misery? It is the pain created from wrong suspicions. "
69 " How much happens due to our own doing? It is only the plan that gets designed, and that too, not by us alone, it is as an evidence in the process. At the time when the work [effect] happens, we are not the evidentiary doer. The work [effect] continues to happen naturally. "
70 " There is no problem in calling a thief, ‘a thief; but to call him bad, or to hurt him, is a fault of one’s vision. It is verily this faulty vision that has give rise to this world. The existence of this world is a result of this illusionary vision; it is not a result of ‘exactness’. "
71 " If you are going to doubt someone, then do so all the way to the end. The Lord calls that awareness. Do not doubt anyone if you are going to start doubting him and then stop. It is better not to leave home if you are going to leave for Kashi and return from half way from Mathura. "
72 " People go on forgetting every phase in life. They draw the next phase and keep on forgetting the previous one. "
73 " What is normality? The demarcation of 'likes' should not remain and the demarcation of 'dislikes' should also not remain. "
74 " To first get to know what One's own inherent nature is like, to set the conviction (pratiti) for that, that is known as samkit (right belief of 'I am pure Soul'). Of all the inherent natures [out there], is any of them 'mine' [the Self's]? The Gnani will say, "No." Whether you wiggle your tongue in this or that direction, whether you awaken the kundalini (in yoga, latent female energy believed to lie coiled at the base of the spine) or read the scriptures, there is no Soul in that. It is all pudgal (relative) whereas there is no other [relative] thing present in the Atma (Soul). "
75 " If there is difference of opinions on a rare occasion, then that is the measure of being a human. "