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1 " When there is difference of opinion, there will be conflict. When there is difference of minds, there will be a divorce. When there is difference from the body, there will be death. "
― Dada Bhagwan , Life Without Conflict
2 " If you made difference of opinion, there where would Soul reside? Where there is difference of opinion, there is no Soul, and where there is Soul, there is no difference of opinion. Soul can never manifest where there is difference of opinion. Where there is egoism, there is opinion. "
3 " Science’ will destroy Difference of opinion. Full blessed state of the self (Complete Samadhi) prevails through the ‘science’, continuous blessed state of the self. Such ‘science’ seldom arises in this world. Otherwise “science” is never there. "
4 " What causes obstructions on the way to moksha (ultimate liberation)? Opinion. Leaving aside talk of Gnan (knowledge of the Self), Opinion does not allow one to understand even Agnan (Delusionary knowledge, Knowledge other than the True Self). "
5 " When one says, ‘my opinion’, it creates a veil. Due to the veils of his opinions, one does not understand the opinions of other people, and so there he keeps on talking ill things only. "
6 " I had researched that whole world sees through ‘view-point’. Energies are wasted in ‘view point’. Even if you were to sit waiting your whole life, it is not possible to change the other person’s view point. "
7 " If one has an illness in his vision, he will see only negative in others, no matter how right they are. "
8 " The one who begins to have doubts, for him complete destruction occurs. Having doubts is a sign of timidity. The entire world is ‘scientific circumstantial evidence’. Where is the basis for doubts then? You are the owner of the entire universe; ‘I’ am ready to give you proof. "
9 " How can we call anyone’s view point as being wrong? Can we tell a blind man off if he bumps into a wall? Hey, he bumped into the wall because he was blind. "
10 " A doubt that in reality, 'I am not this' has arisen regarding the knowledge of 'Who am I'. From the moment a doubt sets in about the knowledge that one has known up until now, 'we' [the Gnani Purush] Know that the time has come for that knowledge to break! The knowledge over which doubts arise, that knowledge will dissipate. Doubts can never arise over real Knowledge. "
11 " If you take care of the relative, then the relative itself will help you entirely. "
12 " When kashays (anger-pride-deceit-greed) do not result in punishment, it is called Gnan (Knowledge of the Self). When kashays result in punishment, it is called agnan (ignorance of the Self). "
13 " To remain in ‘view point’, to adjust to the ‘view point’ (of others) and to remain in the center; it is a great thing. "
14 " Where does the problem arise in adjusting? ‘She is the one I married, she is my wife’. Hey! but she is not a ‘wife’. When he is not a ‘husband’, how can there be a wife then? "
15 " If the laws of traffic are honored, then the car will not collide anywhere. If you abide by all kinds of laws of this world, then you will not collide anywhere. "
16 " If you have difference of opinions, that is your weakness. People are not wrong. No one does anything deliberately. You should ask for forgiveness and accept that you are at fault. We should ask for forgiveness that I am at fault. "
17 " What is the meaning of difference of opinions? It is to clash (bump) with a wall. If we hit our head, is it the wall’s fault or our’s? "
18 " Even after the dehadhyas (the belief that 'I am the body') has gone, people will say, "I saw you eating." Then you have to agree with them, but that is not what is in your belief. "
19 " Some kind of mistake is remaining (within us) due to which conflicts are being created (by us). It is not as if only the Gnan (right knowledge) can destroy conflicts; they can be removed even through the intellect (buddhi). "
20 " The absence of conflict creating intent is itself Moksh (liberation). "