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1 " Every true love and friendship is a story of unexpected transformation. If we are the same person before and after we loved, that means we haven't loved enough. "
― Elif Shafak , The Forty Rules of Love
2 " How can love be worthy of its name if one selects solely the pretty things and leaves out the hardships? It is easy to enjoy the good and dislike the bad. Anybody can do that. The real challenge is to love the good and the bad together, not because you need to take the rough with the smooth but because you need to go beyond such descriptions and accept love in its entirety. "
3 " Whatever happens in your life, no matter how troubling things might seem, do not enter the neighbourhood of despair.Even when all doors remain closed, God wil open up a new path only for you. Be thankful! It is easy to be thankful when all is well. A Sufi is thankful not only for what he has been given but also for all that has been denied. "
― Elif Shafak
4 " The highest activity a human being can attain is learning for understanding, because to understand is to be free. "
― Elif Shafak , Three Daughters of Eve
5 " İnsanoğlu nedense anlayamadığı şeylere kötülemeye meyilli. "
6 " Her maktul katilinde yaşamaya devam eder. "
7 " If a stone hits a river, the river will treat it as yet another commotion in its already tumultuous course. Nothing unusual. Nothing unmanageable. If a stone hits a lake, however, the lake will never be the same again. "
8 " There was so much filth to clean up; so many broken pieces to fix; so many errors to correct. Every morning she left her house she let out a quiet sigh, as if in one breath she could will away detritus of the previous day.--Three Daughters of Eve "
9 " ...for love loves power. That is why we can suicidally fall in love with others but can rarely reciprocate the love of those suicidally in love with us. "
― Elif Shafak , The Bastard of Istanbul
10 " Every winner is inclined to think he will be triumphant forever. Every loser tends to fear that he is going to be beaten forever. But both are wrong for the same reason: Everything changes except the face of god. "
11 " Because time is a drop in the ocean, and you cannot measure off one drop against another to see which one is bigger, which one is smaller. "
12 " You see, unlike in the movies, there is no THE END sign flashing at the end of books. When I've read a book, I don't feel like I've finished anything. So I start a new one. "
13 " May love always be with you, and you always surrounded by love "
14 " It is so demanding to be born into a house full of women, where everyone loves you so overwhelmingly that they end up suffocating with their love; a house where you, as the only child, have to be more mature than all the adults around....But the problem is that they want me to become everything they themselves couldn't accomplish in life.....As a result, I had to work my butt off to fulfill all their dreams at the same time. "
15 " Fret not where the road will take you. Instead concentrate on the first step. That's the hardest part and that's what you are responsible for. Once you take that step let everything do what it naturally does and the rest will follow. Do not go with the flow. Be the flow. "
16 " My interest in Sufism began when I was a college student. At the time, I was a rebellious young woman who liked to wrap several shawls of ‘-isms’ around her shoulders: I was a leftist, feminist, nihilist, environmentalist, anarcho-pacifist…I wasn’t interested in any religion and the difference between ‘religiosity’ and ‘spirituality’ was lost to me. Having spent some time of my childhood with a loving grandmother with many superstitions and beliefs, I had a sense the world was not composed of solely material things and there was more to life than I could see. But the truth is, I wasn’t interested in understanding the world. I only wanted to change it. "
17 " Every book is a journey, a map into the complexities of the human mind and soul. "
― Elif Shafak , Black Milk: On Writing, Motherhood, and the Harem Within
18 " Loneliness was an inseparable part of being human. "
19 " When you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you, a joy. "
― Elif Shafak , The Architect's Apprentice
20 " Father, I am from a different egg than your other children. Think of me as a duckling raised by hens. I am not a domestic bird destined to spend his life in a chicken coop. The water that scares you rejuvenates me. For unlike you I can swim, and swim I shall. The ocean is my homeland. If you are with me, come to the ocean. If not, stop interfering with me and go back to the chicken coop. "
