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161 " If one of my inner belief systems or thought patterns is, “I am unworthy,” then one of my outer effects will probably be procrastination. After all, procrastination is one way to keep us from getting where we say we want to go. Most people who procrastinate will spend a lot of time and energy berating themselves for procrastinating. They will call themselves lazy and generally will make themselves out to feel they are “bad persons. "
― Louise L. Hay , You Can Heal Your Life
162 " Thoughts and words create our future experiences "
163 " I believe that should is one of the most damaging words in our language. Every time we use should, we are, in effect, saying “wrong.” Either we are wrong or we were wrong or we are going to be wrong. I don’t think we need more wrongs in our life. We need to have more freedom of choice. "
164 " replace it with the word could. Could gives us choice, and we are never wrong. "
165 " If you find yourself saying, “Everyone always does such and such to me, criticizes me, is never there for me, uses me like a doormat, abuses me,” then this is YOUR PATTERN. There is some thought in you that attracts people who exhibit this behavior. When you no longer think that way, they will go elsewhere and do that to somebody else. You will no longer attract them. "
166 " It’s only a thought, and a thought can be changed. "
167 " Even our concept of God needs to be one that is for us, not against us. "
168 " You never do anything right.” “It’s all your fault.” How often have you said this to yourself? “You are wonderful.” “I love you.” How often do you tell yourself this? "
169 " if you listen with compassion, you will learn where their fears and rigid patterns come from. "
170 " Loving and approving of yourself, trusting in the process of life and feeling safe because you know the power of your own mind make up the best diet I know of. Go on a diet from negative thoughts, and your weight will take care of itself. "
171 " I am saying to acknowledge the “power within you” that transforms our every thought into experience. "
172 " Your point of power is in the present moment and is forming the experience of tomorrow, next week, next month, next year, and so on. "
173 " I have found that forgiving and releasing resentment will dissolve even cancer. While "
174 " So here is a client who has just looked "
175 " YOUR MIND IS A TOOL YOU CAN CHOOSE TO USE ANY WAY YOU WISH. The thoughts you “choose” to think create the experiences you have. If you believe that it is hard or difficult to change a habit or a thought, then your choice of this thought will make it true for you. If you would choose to think, “It is becoming easier for me to make changes,” then your choice of this thought will make that true for you. "
176 " The Universal Power Never Judges or Criticizes Us It only accepts us at our own value. Then it reflects our beliefs in our lives. If I want to believe that life is lonely and that nobody loves me, then that is what I will find in my world. However, if I am willing to release that belief and to affirm for myself that “Love is everywhere, and I am loving and lovable,” and to hold on to that new affirmation and to repeat it often, then it will become true for me. Now, loving people will come into my life, the people already in my life will become more loving to me, and I will find myself easily expressing love to others. "
177 " Sometimes when we try to release a pattern, the whole situation seems to get worse for a while. This is not a bad thing. It is a sign that the situation is beginning to move. Our affirmations are working, and we need to keep going. "
178 " We are all victims of victims, and they could not possibly have taught us anything they did not know. "
179 " We give our power to others and use that excuse as our resistance to changing. "