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Not For Happiness: A Guide to the So-Called Preliminary Practices QUOTES

Not For Happiness: A Guide to the So-Called Preliminary Practices QUOTES

1 " There will be times, for example, when you feel you are faking it. However hard you try genuinely to practice, it just doesn't feel right. And on the rare occasions it does feel authentic, the sensation is over almost before it began. So, try to be content with your practice, whatever it feels like, even when you are doing little more than paying it lip service, because at least you are making an effort. "

― Dzongsar Jamyang Khyentse , Not For Happiness: A Guide to the So-Called Preliminary Practices

2 " The sutras liken reincarnation to the relationship between teachers and students. A singing teacher teaches students how to sing. His students learn techniques and benefit from direct experiential advice from their teacher. But the teacher doesn't remove a song from his throat and insert it into a student's mouth. Similarly, reincarnation is a continuity of everything we have learnt, like lighting one candle from another, or a face and its reflection in a mirror. "

― Dzongsar Jamyang Khyentse , Not For Happiness: A Guide to the So-Called Preliminary Practices

3 " It is such a mistake to assume that practicing dharma will help us calm down and lead an untroubled life; nothing could be further from the truth. Dharma is not a therapy. Quite the opposite, in fact; dharma is tailored specifically to turn your life upside down—it’s what you sign up for. So when your life goes pear-shaped, why do you complain? If you practice and your life fails to capsize, it is a sign that what you are doing is not working. This is what distinguishes the dharma from New Age methods involving auras, relationships, communication, well-being, the Inner Child, being one with the universe, and tree hugging. From the point of view of dharma, such interests are the toys of samsaric beings—toys that quickly bore us senseless. "

― Dzongsar Jamyang Khyentse , Not For Happiness: A Guide to the So-Called Preliminary Practices

4 " It is vital to understand that however positive this worldly life, or even a small part of it, may appear to be, ultimately it will fail because absolutely nothing genuinely works in samsara. "

― Dzongsar Jamyang Khyentse , Not For Happiness: A Guide to the So-Called Preliminary Practices

5 " Students often ask if they should only invoke the guru in the context of a formal daily practice, or if it can be done anywhere. The answer is that it depends on the student. Dharma bums who roam the streets of Kathmandu smoking hashish and sitting in cafés nursing a half-empty cup of cappuccino for most of the day should probably sit formally and recite ten million or one hundred million mantras. Whereas those who have demanding jobs in London, New York or Paris might benefit more from reciting the mantra on their way to work, or as they wait for a bus. The method each student is given will depend entirely on their personal situation and how disciplined they are. "

― Dzongsar Jamyang Khyentse , Not For Happiness: A Guide to the So-Called Preliminary Practices

6 " The aim of far too many teachings these days is to make people "feel good," and even some Buddhist masters are beginning to sound like New Age apostles. Their talks are entirely devoted to validating the manifestation of ego and endorsing the "rightness" of our feelings, neither of which have anything to do with the teachings we find in the pith instructions. So, if you are only concerned about feeling good, you are far better off having a full body massage or listening to some uplifting or life-affirming music than receiving dharma teachings, which were definitely not designed to cheer you up. On the contrary, the dharma was devised specifically to expose your failings and make you feel awful. "

― Dzongsar Jamyang Khyentse , Not For Happiness: A Guide to the So-Called Preliminary Practices

7 " To believe that life's problems will somehow work themselves out, everything bad is fixable and something about samsara has to be worth fighting for makes it virtually impossible to nurture a genuine, all-consuming desire to practise the dharma. The only view that truly works for a dharma practitioner is that there are no solutions to the sufferings of samsara and it cannot be fixed. "

― Dzongsar Jamyang Khyentse , Not For Happiness: A Guide to the So-Called Preliminary Practices

8 " It’s vital always to bear in mind that we practise for the sake of all other beings, and that the enormity of this aspiration is what makes dharma practice both extremely powerful and inexhaustible, virtually guaranteeing that the result will be infinitely beneficial. "

― Dzongsar Jamyang Khyentse , Not For Happiness: A Guide to the So-Called Preliminary Practices

9 " Outwardly we should practise the shravakayana, inwardly the bodhisattvayana and secretly the vajrayana. "

― Dzongsar Jamyang Khyentse , Not For Happiness: A Guide to the So-Called Preliminary Practices