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101 " Intention of seeking attention is an addiction. A vicious cycle which damages your health, finances and relationships. It will NOT improve your self-image, increase your self-worth or fulfill the need of genuine praise. "
― Maddy Malhotra , How to Build Self-Esteem and Be Confident: Overcome Fears, Break Habits, Be Successful and Happy
102 " You don't know who you are; you just know what they’ve told you about who you are! "
103 " Science is proving it now and the old spiritual books said it centuries ago that negative thoughts are the primary source of all the internal and external diseases/illnesses! "
104 " Self-talk deeply impacts your attitude, decisions and actions hence your success, happiness and self-esteem. "
105 " Rehashing thoughts of painful events from the past or imagining negative events of the future is self-abuse and can be more destructive than physical harm. "
106 " Anyone can read a self-help book and start preaching. It takes a lot of courage (and everything else) to change your life before becoming a life coach. "
107 " Blaming others for your low self-esteem, for your lack of money, for being overweight, or for feeling bad, is NOT going to make your life better. Take responsibility. Work on it. The choice is yours. "
108 " A lot is being done to cure physical self-harm, and yet it's a by-product of mental self-harm! "
109 " You get a job when you have the right qualifications and work experience. Similarly, individuals should be allowed to be parents (considering that parenting is a full time job for at least 16 years) only when they completely understand how life/mind works and have implemented it in their lives. "
110 " There are thousands of dialects and hundreds of languages spoken in religious countries. Do you think God is a human who understands all that? It's your intentions which make your prayers successful. Do you pray out of fear, lack, or despair - or out of positive expectations, gratitude, and love? "
111 " Don't let your past pollute your present and disable you from progressing in the future. "
112 " An Oxford degree or owning a successful business or a perfect looking body does NOT guarantee inner-happiness, peace of mind, self-love, and a loving relationship. "
113 " Your beliefs about your worth, deservingness and ability decides the amount of happiness, success and love in your life. "
114 " Remind yourself daily that someone somewhere is happy with less than you possess. "
115 " If you keep running away from yourself then be warned that love, joy, peace and fulfillment will keep running away from you! "
116 " You may know how to operate computers. You may know a lot about aliens or robots. You may be a doctor, lawyer, engineer, teacher, specialist… BUT if you don’t know how you operate, why your life is the way it is and how to increase fulfillment, love and peace in your life then all the knowledge and degrees aren’t much worth having! "
117 " Gratitude is the best way to feel inner-Peace and Happiness "
118 " Everyone needs peace of mind, inner-happiness and joyful relationships but most people don't prioritize these. Do you set goals or invest in learning to achieve these? If you focus only on career, social and financial goals then you will never be fulfilled or fully successful! "
119 " Nothing will change if you blame. Rather it will aggravate negative emotions within you. Don't waste your time blaming. "
120 " Emotional health is more important than a fit body. Unknowingly most of us focus on the latter hence the lack of inner-happiness, peace, love and fulfillment. "