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1 " Let your fear of regret be stronger than your fear of failure. "
― Ruth Soukup , Do It Scared: Finding the Courage to Face Your Fears, Overcome Adversity, and Create a Life You Love
2 " Big goals provide the road map for our lives, the compass that tells us we’re moving in the right direction. "
3 " You see, when we set goals that feel safer and achievable, we are caving in to our own preconceived notions of what we are capable of. We’re not pushing past our comfort zone; we’re just settling for status quo. "
4 " It’s an act of courage whenever you make the decision to accept responsibility for every choice and decision you make. "
5 " When you take ownership, you don’t have to worry about what happens to you or how other people might treat you or what obstacles might come your way, because ultimately you are in control. "
6 " Fear is a funny thing.... The very instinct designed to protect us also holds us back. "
7 " If your ultimate goal is not to have a home that looks like it belongs in a magazine or to drive a Cadillac Escalade, then what sense does it make to compare yourself - or your home or your vehicle - to the friends who has made that her primary objective? "
8 " No one gets a free pass. None of us are guaranteed a perfectly pleasant journey free of hardship, struggle, and pain. "
9 " Have you ever heard of SMART goals? It’s basically the idea that your goals should be Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Relevant, and Time Bound. Meaning, you should know exactly what can actually accomplish; it should be meaningful to you; and it should have a deadline. "
10 " Rules are for suckers. "
11 " Over-commitment is a downward spiral that is best avoided by saying no. "
12 " Everyone experiences fear differently means that the path to overcoming fear will also be a little bit different for everyone. "
13 " Give yourself permission to practice self-care and to make time for your own dreams, goals, and priorities. "
14 " It’s important to take care of yourself so you can be there for others. "
15 " A big part of your fear comes from the script that plays inside your head. "
16 " This propensity toward jealousy and criticism—which ultimately comes from a place of feeling unworthy—can have an adverse effect on relationships. "
17 " Try to put your “rejection” guard down, and don’t assume you’re being rejected anytime someone says no. Most of the time, they are not rejecting you! "
18 " A big part of your fear comes from the script that has been playing inside your head—the message telling you that you don’t want to take the blame. "
19 " I may not have control over everything, but I can take responsibility for the choices I make. "
20 " Make a point of practicing imperfect action—do one thing each day just to do it, not because it needs to be “right. "