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1 " When you deliver bad news, you don't own the other person's reaction "
― Gaetan Pellerin , Mindful NEGOtiation: Becoming More Aware in the Moment, Conquering Your Ego and Getting Everyone What They Really Want
2 " When you attune to the other person in the moment, you bypass your ego and choose to negotiate in a more authentic and empathic way. "
3 " Being an observer helps you realize that you are not what you are sensing- otherwise, you wouldn't be able to observe it. "
4 " When we feel we don't have power in a negotiation, it is often related to the same feeling in our personal life. "
5 " Being assertive doesn't damage the relationship "
6 " If you are present to what is going on internally, you can change the outcome of negotiation for good "
7 " Negotiation isn't about skills or knowledge, it's about being able to perform under stress, while you experience emotions "
8 " Ego is not the real you. It's your developed personality "
9 " By being mindful in Negotiation, you can change the outcome for good. "
10 " Before you can access a different way of being, one that is not ego-driven, you need to unlock the gateway with self-compassion. "
11 " Preparing is a sign of weakness... for your ego. It doesn't want you to prepare. "
12 " The time invested in preparation will allow you to get to a deal quicker. "
13 " Planning in advance to handle your emotions will allow you to be your best in the moment. "
14 " Self-Compassion is the only way to eliminate your emotional pain for good, as it allows you to accept your emotions without letting them control you. "
15 " The more compassionate you are toward yourself, the less control your emotions have over you. "