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1 " Know-It-Alls like Dr. Leavitt are knowledgeable and extremely competent people, highly assertive and outspoken in their viewpoints. "
― , Dealing With People You Can't Stand and How to Simplify Your Life
2 " Your Goal: Preserve and Protect the Boundary. When dealing with meddling Meddlers who seek to first invade and then remotely run your life, your behavior must send an unmistakable signal that there is a boundary between you that will not be crossed. They must come to understand that while you appreciate their concern and interest, you have the outcome under control and a clear view of the details along the way. The best thing they can give you is their support, and the best thing you can give them is a well-defined boundary that they cannot cross. "
― Rick Kirschner , Dealing With People You Can't Stand and How to Simplify Your Life
3 " The next time a spouse or friend says something in an attacking manner, rather than defend against the attack, blend with the intent by saying, “I appreciate that you care about me, and I want to clear the air between us.” There’s a real possibility that the person will stop in his or her tracks and calm down and that real communication will ensue. "
