QUOTE : Pleasure fades, gets old, gets thrown out with last year's fad. Fear, guilt, all that stuff stays fresh. <br />Maybe that's why people get so enraged when someone does something to a kid. Hurt a kid and he hurts forever. Maybe an adult can shake it off. Maybe. But with a kid, you hurt them and it turns them, shapes them, becomes part of the deep, underlying software of their lives. No delete.