" no matter where you are, only you have dominion over your mind, your beliefs, and your attitudes. So if you look at your situation and let go of excuses or blame, and you choose to believe that you can alter your position on your own, you’ll deprive the system, the man, or the ism controlling you. First, "

― Chris Gardner , Start Where You Are: Life Lessons in Getting from Where You Are to Where You Want to Be