" With grace alone, we are safe from condemnation, but we cannot experience true intimacy. When the one who offers grace also offers truth (truth about who we are, truth about who he or she is, and truth about the world around us), and we respond with our true self, then real intimacy is possible. Real intimacy always comes in the company of truth. "

― Henry Cloud , Changes That Heal: The Four Shifts That Make Everything Better…And That Anyone Can Do