" The most comforting people in the world are those who have been comforted; the most understanding people are those who have been understood; and the most loving people, those who have been loved. The disciple whom Jesus loved the most (John 21:20) unsurprisingly became known as the apostle of love. What he received, he later gave. "

― Henry Cloud , 12 'Christian' Beliefs That Can Drive You Crazy: Relief from False Assumptions