" I pressed send and left Grindr open on my phone for a while. After fifteen minutes when there was no response, I closed it and tried to forget about the conversation. After twenty-four hours and still no response, I started to understand that the clear rejection was based on my being trans.
- How to Be Gay When the Gays Won’t Have You -
Rae Spoon "

― Ivan E. Coyote , Gender Failure