Elle Chase QUOTES

1 " Trailblazers in feminist Porn include female filmmakers like Tristan Taormino and Erika Lust, who make certain that their actors are treated fairly and respectfully. They create sexy, sensual visuals and storylines, and always make certain their actors have chemistry, connection, and real orgasms. "

― Elle Chase , Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life

2 " Oral sex is one of the most intimate sex acts you can take part in, and in many ways it can feel more intimate than penetrative sex. It is a vulnerable act in which you relinquish control of your most private and sensitive body part to your partner. "

― Elle Chase , Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life

3 " Yes, orgasm can be an incredible feeling that allows you to fully take advantage of your anatomy and surrender to all the joys that can lead up to your climax. But whether you orgasm at all or you have multiple orgasms during sex, it’s just part of the pleasure-filled journey—not the culmination or result. "

― Elle Chase , Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life

4 " Sexual Arousal and Foreplay: If we’re to believe that what we see in movies, our sexual rendezvous would consist of 10 seconds of kissing, 5 seconds of groping, and another 5 seconds closing the deal. A straightforward sex scene doesn’t commonly show the female arousal process, and a lot of the time, this process is key in order to have a really satisfying sexual experience.
Fooling around a lot before part A goes into slot B gets the female body prepped for sex in very important way. "

― Elle Chase , Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life

5 " It might surprise you to know that the missionary position is most women’s favorite position. Missionary may at first glance seem boring, but it is also one of the most versatile positions. There are endless ways to modify it and take it to new levels. "

― Elle Chase , Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life

6 " Spooning and sideways positions can get hot and dirty but they also can be about building connection and closeness. If you want to get super intimate and close, sideways sex can get deep quick when you’re skin-to-skin against your lover and moving in rhythm together. Your bodies feel snug and more conjoined than ever. "

― Elle Chase , Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life

7 " The fact of the matter is that the positions you might see porn stars doing are not positions the rest of us can do right off the bat, if at all. These actors are professionals—in fact, think of them as trained athletes. You wouldn’t expect to wake up on a Sunday morning and run a marathon without any training, would you? Athletic accomplishments, including sexual ones, take practice. "

― Elle Chase , Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life

8 " So it is with sexual pleasure. Sure, I can show you the positions that work best if you’re a plus-size woman, but none of it will help you enjoy sex if you don’t know how to perceive and extract pleasure from your own body . . . and I’m not just talking about orgasm. The first step to experiencing sexual pleasure is knowing how our bodies are built to give us pleasure so we can take advantage of all they have to offer! "

― Elle Chase , Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life

9 " Being in better tune with our sense helps to release some of our inhibitions and embrace the more open and playful parts of ourselves. Owning your sexiness builds confidence and encourages boldness in our everyday lives. When you feel sensual, you are better able to feel sexy. And when you feel sexy, you’re feeling positive—and I think we can all agree that feeling positive makes a huge difference in our daily lives. "

― Elle Chase , Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life

10 " The Wishbone in Your Pants
What the head of the penis is to a man, the clitoris is to a woman—literally. We all start out the same in the womb until biology decides whether our erectile tissue covers a penis or is made into a nub with a set of legs and bulbs. "

― Elle Chase , Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life

11 " Lube helps to prevent micro-tears on the delicate skin in and on the genitals, which leave us vulnerable to sexually transmitted infections. Lube also makes the friction between your vagina (or anus) and whatever is being inserted silky and comfortable, as well as aids in smooth and nongrating hand sex. "

― Elle Chase , Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life

12 " Mutual masturbation can be a terrific precursor to intercourse, or it can be a main event all on its own. I’m a big proponent of mutual masturbation for couples looking to reestablish intimacy in their relationship. Masturbating each other or in front of each other can build anticipation, tease each other, and serve as foreplay. There’s so much room to explore. "

― Elle Chase , Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life

13 " I get asked this question the most: “What’s your number-one tip for improving someone’s sex life?” My answer is always “Communication. "

― Elle Chase , Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life

14 " Knowing how you like to be touched and being able to communicate that kindly to a partner is a major component of a satisfying sex life. But how do you know what makes your body sing if you haven’t spent some time finding out? Solo sex (masturbation) is a natural way to understand what your particular body likes and how it likes to be aroused. "

― Elle Chase , Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life

15 " When I’m asked what the number-one tip for better sex is, I always say conscious breathing. By controlling your breath, you also control the oxygen in your bloodstream. Highly oxygenated blood gives our bodies more energy and helps our organs function to their highest potential. Just learning how to do one very simple specific breathing technique—like Breath of Fire or synchronized breathing with your partner—during sex and at climax can significantly improve your pleasure in the moment. "

― Elle Chase , Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life

16 " For the curvy gal, a wand like the Original Magic Wand, is essential because of its length and strength; it can navigate over a large stomach to reach the clit with ease. Another reason a wand is a fantastic tool to keep close is that girls with big tummies can tuck the handle of the wand under their soft belly to hold it in place during missionary-style sex. "

― Elle Chase , Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life

17 " Each of our bodies is unique. We may share the same basic make-up as men and women, but we certainly don't feel everything the same. What feels good on your body may not always feel good on someone else's
body and that is absolutely natural. "

― Elle Chase , Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life

18 " Consent can be sexy! Reframing a question as part of seduction/foreplay allows couples to be clear about what kind of sexual activity is allowed while keeping the mood alive. Saying, “I’m wondering what it would be like to kiss you” in a soft, seductive tone can feel easier (and hotter) in a steamy moment than, “Do you mind if I kiss you? "

― Elle Chase , Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life

19 " I sometimes use the word “fat,” as I consider it to be an accurate descriptor of some curvy gals, including me. I believe using “fat” in a nonpejorative way helps destigmatize and inure us to the word as the insult it’s become, and gets us used to seeing it as it was meant to be used: As a neutral descriptor. I use the words curvy, plus-size, zaftig, plump, larger, and bigger in the same spirit. Some of these words may make you bristle at first, but they are not meant negatively but solely as adjectives. "

― Elle Chase , Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life

20 " Using lube has been known to make penetrative sex last longer, and even a drop in the well of a condom can make wearing one a lot more comfy. "

― Elle Chase , Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life