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1 " Realising your potentials and spirituality begins with seeing yourself as imperfect with the intent of working towards perfection. "
― Victor UzihBen
2 " When you make people want to remind you or tell you who they are, then you have succeeded in making them uncomfortable about themselves. Don't remind people their good days at the bad times of their lives. "
3 " You are happy in your marriage because a Side-chick is giving him the peace you can not. Look, when you win every argument with your husband, just know someone else is losing arguments with him. "
4 " If you know this as a woman, you will be his peace: Men were made in the image and glory of God to subdue and rule over the world. Women were made from the glory of Man for the man to be his companion, help meet and peace in times of distress.This makes the woman answerable to one man and it's expected that a man is contended with one woman for this reason, a man will leave his family and cleave to his wife. WHY?The day a woman is married away from her father's house, she cease to remain a part of her house house without inheritance and identification. She takes cover and upon herself inheritance of her husband's house and name of her husband's family.Check yourself, if you are still unmarried, please leave witches alone, they are only good and killing. What is responsible for your inability to marry might be responsible for your inability to keep a husband. It could be the way you dress, the smell of your dirtiness, the way your tongue is unbridled, your commitment to people maybe the way you where brought up by your parents.The world created and changed gradually not by leaders or governments or religion but by the family. And the reason we have rivals is the woman.A man will love all of his children equally, but a woman will love one than the other. These rivalry creates turbulence in the subconscious minds of out children and they end up been social vices, bad politicians, untrained husbands, and disrespectful wives.If my errors in marriage can not be a lesson then I am failed person, hence I can boldly say I have experience in marriage. A young lady may respond to this post, saying "I am happy in my marriage and my husband loves me" well I will say no. Cause if you are truly a wife example you agree with all I have said above because that is the yarning of your husbands expectations.You are happy in your marriage because a Side-chick is giving him the peace you can not. Look, when you win every argument with your husband, just know someone else is losing argument with him. "
5 " What makes a successful marriage is not love. What makes a successful marriage is knowing your place in this divine covenant. A man is meant to love and a woman is meant to submit. When you misplace your place there is bound to be errors and chaos.Imagine a woman loving a man? She will be heartbroken cause the man is loving another. But when a woman is submissive to a man, the man is subjected by divine ordinance to love her, cause submissiveness propel and activate love no matter how you put it.Now, let's imagine a man submitting to a woman. Well, I have no explanation to that. It is appalling and not something anyone wants to hear.Love is shown by gifts (items, good treatment, kindness etc) but submissiveness is shown by obeying, listening and servanthood.Psychologically, a servant who is diligent has more respect than a son of the house who is arrogant. So, let's go back to the drawing board and make our marriages work - Victor Vote "
6 " Our value is without compliments until we are gone, until we become unreachable, until we are scarce. "
7 " I do everything with love; show me those who act through love, I will show you a man who died on the cross; killed by those who he fed. His love was called pride, insubordination and churlish but after his death, he was missed. Our value is without compliments until we are gone, until we become unreachable, until we are scarce. "
8 " Living above the reality of depending on others opinion over your choice is another way of attaining self awareness and spiritual awakening. "
9 " We know everything will be fine but our tears and our words, and hidden messages on posts, our statuses is to let you know that we are still in search of happiness. To tell you we are trying to be strong, to remind you that there will always be time when even in the morning weeping still endures. "
10 " I have made decisions that pained me, took some steps that chopped off my legs, stake some highs that brought me down but one thing has always remained - my quest for perfection cause my failures didn't pull me down it was fear of failing "
11 " You want to stand out in the crowd; yet you fear noise. "
12 " Love is meant to nurture and not enslave. "
13 " When you make people want to remind you or tell you who they are, then you have succeeded in making them uncomfortable about themselves. "
14 " BEE QUEENBe not scared oh beetles of the earthBe at peace for the Queen Bee flaps for the preys. Your safety abide oh Queen of the Bee for your grace is only for the bees. The earth cry for empathy and your smiles brightened her fateWhen darkness whispers, your glow splashes Your beauty is like a thorn, it penetrates even the hardest feelingsYour nest awaits your grace oh Queen motherPoem by Victor Vote for Yetunde Kayode©️2021 by VVF "
15 " When we say, 'it is well'; it is actually the hovering bird with no sense of direction on how to feed her chicks. The fear tearing the heart of the lion if his meal will ever appear. It is the flower at the mercy of the sleeping sun. The lonely mountain without a climber. Sometimes, it is the strength envisage even when the night falls. The tears of a helpless lost soul... it is saying to my soul "It is well". "
16 " BLACK AND WHITE Oh Princess of the Sun. Daughter of nature. Love of the trees. Your eyes are with tears but love only flows through its canalYou who defeated death with a kiss and old age was given as a crown. You walk in the streets of fate with hope as a sceptre. Olawaremilekun, the goodness that expresses grace. Your beauty still marvels the sons of men.Poem by Victor Vote for Princess Abisoye Oluwaremilekun Atinuadewa ©️2021 by VVF "
17 " David accepted the consequences of all hisshortcomings.He accepted them.He became a manafter God’s heart.Not because he stoppedsinning - what we call sinis an error in judgment.God never punishes youfor your errors - youcreate consequences foryour actions.Error is what you call itand not what it is. "
18 " NAOMI, THE GODDESS OF OASISIt was a cool evening when destiny called, Naomi. The call that will revive the hearts of the children of men. Destiny presented herself like a Rose. With thorns that makes the crown.Destiny is beautiful. An enigma of peace that ponder the hearts of men.She adores herself with the blood of motherhood. Smiling in tears and with care she nurtures every soul.She's nature's friend, the waters that pushes with the wind and moves in path with her lings. Her nature is beauty and her songs nourishes the soul of men. Her light illuminates their Hope's and tears are wiped with her smiles.Oh daughter of the great land of Ozoro, the pride of her mother land. The rainbow rose that illuminates the garden of doubts. May your voice sends peace to the wailing hearts.May your day never grow dark on the mornings and may your evening be the time your waistline is with tiring and your love round about you.Great daughter of the forest kingdom. Enigma of royalty. Pride of her love. Queen of the Desert Kingdom. Goddess of OasisPoem by Victor Vote to Atabeh Rezi.©️2021 by VVF "
19 " Getting better is not a trying task, it is a mandatory obligation to add value into whatever you do "
20 " Don't become the enemy trying to fix people. People will always love their old ways, that may just work for them.If they accept your instructions when you are around them and do otherwise when you are absent - they fear you not respect you.Let them be the architects of their own doom without blaming it on you. "
