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The Boy Who Loved Too Much: A True Story of Pathological Friendliness QUOTES

The Boy Who Loved Too Much: A True Story of Pathological Friendliness QUOTES

1 " All of us risk being taken advantage of to some degree, but what would it be like to go through life this irremediably vulnerable, biologically unable to peel your heart from your sleeve and lock it safely inside? "

― , The Boy Who Loved Too Much: A True Story of Pathological Friendliness

2 " The cruel irony of the disorder is that the very people who crave social connection the most aren't well adapted to get it. Their insatiable drive to connect is, in itself, what ultimately pushes people away. "

― , The Boy Who Loved Too Much: A True Story of Pathological Friendliness

3 " They hold up a mirror to the part of ourselves we're trying our best to conceal: that utterly defenseless, deeply tender inner part that yearns for connection and kindness- and can be so easily crushed. "

― , The Boy Who Loved Too Much: A True Story of Pathological Friendliness

4 " Neurobiologists have traced the apparent absence of social fear to abnormalities in the amygdalae of people with Williams. These almond-shaped clusters of neuclei, buried deep in the brain, help process emotions and regulate our fight-or-flight response to danger. In people with Williams, they react more dramatically than normal to images of disasters, such as fires, or plane crashes, which researchers think may explain why people with Williams often develop anxiety disorders. Conversely, they respond with abnormal indifference to images of people making fearful or angry facial expressions. The amygdalae of people without Williams tend to be extremely sensitive to those expressions since we have evolved to see them as warnings. Getting to close to a hostile person, or an aggressive ape, probably cost many of our ancestors their lives. Seeing a look of panic on someone else's face and starting to run probably saved the lives of many more. "

― , The Boy Who Loved Too Much: A True Story of Pathological Friendliness