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1 " Arise, my friend – the world is wailing for kindness – it is wailing for compassion – it is wailing for love. "
― Abhijit Naskar , Wise Mating: A Treatise on Monogamy (Humanism Series)
2 " Civilized are not those who never make mistakes – civilized are those who learn from their mistakes instead of trying to justify them. "
3 " The more we humanize the society, the more we will become humans. "
4 " What is the point of being humans, if our actions scream with more bestiality than humanity! "
5 " Humanity is not a word my friend. It is a symbol – a symbol of hope – a symbol of wisdom – yet this very symbol has become disgraced by our faults and deluded justification of mistakes. "
6 " Compatibility doesn't determine the fate of a marriage, how you deal with the incompatibilities, does. "
7 " If you want to be drunk, become drunk with an idea. "
8 " If you want to be drunk, become drunk with an idea. If you want pleasure, have pleasure from the pursuit of your passion. If you want to be indoctrinated, then be so by the natural law of humanism. "
9 " Two married partners do not just live with each other, they live in each other, neurologically speaking. "
10 " When two people fall in love, they not only give up their genuine authority over their own lives, but also, they become mutual authorities of the collective life that they build together. "
11 " Do not seek for the best partner, but seek for the person who makes you a better version of yourself. "
12 " A healthy world is made of healthy nations. A healthy nation is made of healthy families. And a healthy family can only be raised on the foundation of a monogamous relationship. "
13 " A healthy marriage acts as the vessel of wellbeing and stability for both partners as well as the children. "
14 " Let me tell you a story. There was a student who asked his teacher, what is love? The teacher said go into the field and bring me the most beautiful flower. The student returned with no flower at hand and said, “I found the most beautiful flower in the field but I didn't pick it up for I might find a better one, but when I returned to the place, it was gone.”We always look for the best in life. When we finally see it, we take it for granted and after some time start expecting a better one, not knowing that it's the best for us. "
15 " Cheating is an innate evolutionarily programmed desire, especially in men, but it is not a desire that cannot be controlled. "
16 " A human is the one, who would give up a thousand Cleopatras to be with the person he or she loves. "
17 " Cheating in relationship is a sign of self-regulation failure. When it happens ones, it is a mistake. When it happens twice, it is unfortunate. But when it happens thrice or more, it is a pattern indicating primitive, uncivilized inhuman behavior. "
18 " Try to respond to your partner instead of reacting. "
19 " Marriage is not a competition. Marriage is completion of two souls. "
20 " True love is born out of the pyre of two committed souls. "