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1 " Family therapists view the therapeutic relationship as a means to an end rather than as an end in itself. Family therapists see beyond the problematic patterns in the family to the potential healing power of family relationships. "
― , The Adolescent in Family Therapy: Harnessing the Power of Relationships
2 " I consider therapy successful when the family members (or individual clients) have discovered ways to get what they need from their relationships with the people in their lives, so that their relationship with me is no longer necessary to sustain them. Like a chemical catalyst that facilitates a reaction between two other substances, the therapeutic relationship catalyzes the transformation of relationships in the lives of clients. But the real healing takes place not in the therapeutic relationship but in the client's relationships with significant others. "
3 " Techniques are like tools: The more you have, the more options for getting a job done - but you have to know what you are building first. "
4 " In cases where treatment with medication is warranted, work on family interactions will help to reduce symptom severity and promote better functioning in the long run. "
5 " While the parents might view the adolescent as provoking them, they are also provoking the adolescent. Deliberately or not, the parents might be saying or doing things that are increasing the adolescent’s anxiety or frustration, rather than reducing the level of tension by staying calm and listening carefully to what the adolescent is saying. "