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1 " Your private self must become the same as your public self. "
― John Kuypers , The Non Judgmental Christian: Five Lessons That Will Revolutionize Your Relationships
2 " The present moment is the definition of eternity. It has never not been the present moment. This isn't scriptural or unscriptural - it is merely a logical fact. "
3 " When you have nothing but love, you have everything. This means you must live as if you have nothing to hide, nothing to prove and nothing to lose. "
4 " In its highest form, not judging is the ultimate act of forgiveness. "
5 " Judgments are like a snowball. They stick to you. As time rolls along, the snowball becomes a boulder and then an avalanche. "
6 " A judgment with an evil design comes about when we compare a person to our pre-conceived beliefs about what is right or wrong and then condemn that person. "
7 " To not judge is to be like a peach. We shrink our space by giving up controlling others. Instead, we focus on controlling ourselves. We set others free to be who they are. "
8 " One of the greatest joys of not judging others is becoming capable of discerning God's will in a difficult situation. "
9 " Non-judgment softens the heart and opens the ears. When you are non-judgmental, you are letting God participate in the decision. The Lord works miracles when you give Him space to reveal His power and glory. You become His instrument, not His replacement. "
