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1 " The flesh of humans and animals decays because it is imperfect and, after that, there is no place for consciousness to reside. It is lost forever. "
― , Shattered Heart: Overcoming Death, Loss, Breakup and Separation
2 " The outer world reflects what our inner world is going through. I have learnt that other people’s perception of us is a reflection of them; our response to them is an awareness of us. "
3 " Try to remember your loved ones by keeping their love alive and remembering the fun times that you had and the moments that you shared. "
4 " A shattered heart cannot be changed by people who do not change their thinking. "
5 " Even after the most tragic death, the meanest divorce and the worst breakup, it is possible to heal over time. "
6 " Suicide does not just kill the person who takes his own life; it also kills the people who love you and leaves an indelible mark in their shattered hearts. "
7 " Fake friends drill holes under your boat and destroy your relationship that could otherwise have been great. They will pretend that they love you, yet they are secretly working overtime on your downfall. It’s up to you to know and understand the real reasons why you keep certain people in your life. It’s never too late to get rid of dead wood. "
8 " Many people will abandon you, but always make sure that you do not abandon yourself. That is the ultimate act of self–betrayal. Be kind and considerate to yourself because the signs of pain and struggle will be forever etched in your heart and on your face and they will repel any person that comes into your life. "
9 " Many people in the world are lonely, not because they are abandoned by friends, but because they build walls around themselves instead of bridges. Even when they build bridges, they fail to realise that bridges have no allegiance to either side. "
10 " I was the lava that needed physical and emotional protection in that cocoon, only to emerge as a butterfly with colourful multiple reflections. "
11 " My dog Java taught me to love by giving me his absolute all. I was the centre of his universe. I was the focus of his love, faith and trust. He served me in return for scraps that I gave him and he never complained. Only if we could learn a few things from canines, it would be unconditional love and loyalty. "
12 " I think of Java today, not as a dog that simply existed in my family, died and was buried, but as a friend that brought me immense pleasure and unconditional love over the years. "
13 " What we see with our eyes is temporary, but what we feel through our heart can never be taken away by another. It is our everlasting and eternal possession. "
14 " Remember that people are only guests in your life story, even if they are your parents, your siblings, family, friends or relatives–the same way you are only a guest in theirs. Ultimately the life you live is yours. They will soon leave or you will soon leave them. Make the chapters of your own story worth reading. "
15 " When we deny and refuse to confront issues that make us uncomfortable, we make our condition worse. Fear should be attacked by action, by acting fast. "
16 " Silence can have tremendous healing power, but this should not be confused with loneliness. "
17 " I am grateful for friends that have entered and exited my life because they helped me to appreciate the good ones. "
18 " Sometimes those things that irritate us about our partners can help us understand ourselves and offer us the opportunity to grow and love better. "
19 " This is real life and you have one shot at it. So why mess your one shot at life by staying in an unhappy, unhealthy and toxic marriage? "