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Catfish and Mandala: A Two-Wheeled Voyage Through the Landscape and Memory of Vietnam QUOTES

Catfish and Mandala: A Two-Wheeled Voyage Through the Landscape and Memory of Vietnam QUOTES

1 " Too many things have changed. Too much time has passed. I'm different now, a man with a pocketful of unconnected but terribly vivid memories. I was looking to dredge up what I'd long forgotten. Most of all, I am wishing for something to fasten all these gems, maybe something to hold them in a continuity that I can comprehend. "

― Andrew X. Pham , Catfish and Mandala: A Two-Wheeled Voyage Through the Landscape and Memory of Vietnam

2 " Nobody gives way to anybody. Everyone just angles, points, dives directly toward his destination, pretending it is an all-or-nothing gamble. People glare at one another and fight for maneuvering space. All parties are equally determined to get the right-of-way--insist on it. They swerve away at the last possible moment, giving scant inches to spare. The victor goes forwards, no time for a victory grin, already engaging in another contest of will. Saigon traffic is Vietnamese life, a continuous charade of posturing, bluffing, fast moves, tenacity and surrenders. "

― Andrew X. Pham , Catfish and Mandala: A Two-Wheeled Voyage Through the Landscape and Memory of Vietnam

3 " When it's all over, you'll realize that the answer is already within you. "

― Andrew X. Pham , Catfish and Mandala: A Two-Wheeled Voyage Through the Landscape and Memory of Vietnam

4 " The perfection of intention. In the end, it is all that matters. "

― Andrew X. Pham , Catfish and Mandala: A Two-Wheeled Voyage Through the Landscape and Memory of Vietnam

5 " Some call you the lost brothers. Look at you. Living in America has lightened your skin, made you forget your language. You have tasted Western women and you're probably not as attracted to Vietnamese women anymore. You eat nutritious Western food and you are bigger and stronger than us. You know better than to smoke and drink like Vietnamese. You know exercise is good so you don't waste your time sitting in cafés and smoking your hard earned money away. Someday, your blood will mix so well with the Western blood that there will be no difference between you and them. You are already lost to us. "

― Andrew X. Pham , Catfish and Mandala: A Two-Wheeled Voyage Through the Landscape and Memory of Vietnam

6 " Ah, I know you, An. You're too dreamy. Be careful what you do. Choose your life with your head, not your heart. You are like a butterfly. Beautiful. Quick to die. "

― Andrew X. Pham , Catfish and Mandala: A Two-Wheeled Voyage Through the Landscape and Memory of Vietnam

7 " If trouble is coming, don't turn your back, because that's when it's gonna stab. Best to meet it with a grin. That way, you can see what's coming. "

― Andrew X. Pham , Catfish and Mandala: A Two-Wheeled Voyage Through the Landscape and Memory of Vietnam

8 " I think we are, by our own closed-door admissions, a fractious untrusting tribe unified only because we are besieged by larger forces. "

― Andrew X. Pham , Catfish and Mandala: A Two-Wheeled Voyage Through the Landscape and Memory of Vietnam

9 " Why do you think Vietnamese soldiers can forget more easily than American soldiers?' He pulls a half-grin. It is a question he must have contemplated many times. 'We live here. They don't. It's like, say, you and me falling in love with the same girl. We both had good and bad times courting her, maybe she hurt us both. I win and marry her. You go home to your country far away. After twenty years, all you have of her are memories, both the good and the bad. Me, I live with her for twenty years. I see her at her best and at her worse. We make peace with each other. We build our lives, have children, and make new history together. Twenty years and you have only memories. It is not the forgetting but the new history with the girl that is the difference between you and me. "

― Andrew X. Pham , Catfish and Mandala: A Two-Wheeled Voyage Through the Landscape and Memory of Vietnam

10 " He has given me his gift of silence, knowing that at least I am free to construe my own truths about his feelings. It’s generous. "

― Andrew X. Pham , Catfish and Mandala: A Two-Wheeled Voyage Through the Landscape and Memory of Vietnam

11 " His ashes were scattered on the sea he never finished crossing. "

― Andrew X. Pham , Catfish and Mandala: A Two-Wheeled Voyage Through the Landscape and Memory of Vietnam

12 " I'd realized that the surest way forward was to burn all the bridges behind. "

― Andrew X. Pham , Catfish and Mandala: A Two-Wheeled Voyage Through the Landscape and Memory of Vietnam

13 " Adventure is but a collection of detours. "

― Andrew X. Pham , Catfish and Mandala: A Two-Wheeled Voyage Through the Landscape and Memory of Vietnam