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1 " I shouldn't have to be a liar to make someone love me. I shouldn't be so afraid of losing someone that I'll do anything to make them stay. "
― Deb Caletti , The Six Rules of Maybe
2 " Truth was funny, because it was an insistent thing, maybe as powerful and insistent as some force of nature, the push of water or wind. You could keep it out only so long, but it had its own will and its own needs, and maybe you could keep it at bay with lies, but not for long, not for always. "
3 " What is it about hairdressers? You tell them 'not too short' and some part of their hairdresser brain hears this as 'whack the shit out of it.' If you never say, 'not too short,' everything is fine. You say it, & it's a guarantee you'll come out ready for the military> "
4 " I've wished for things and never really had the chance...It's time to stop dreaming and do something about it. You've got to know what you want, then...go. "
5 " You could try and understand people, you could read books and understand words and concepts and ideas, but you could never understand enough or have enough knowledge to keep away the surprises that both fate and human beings had in store. "
6 " Most of our parents wanted the best for us, I knew, but we also wanted the best for them. "
7 " You've got to say what you mean and mean what you say...Doubt in your voice is an open door people will shove right through. "
8 " If letting go, if letting people and things work themselves out in the way that they needed to without your help was the most important thing, then it was also the hardest. "
9 " Sometimes you're sure dogs have some secret, superior intelligence, and other times you know they're only their simple, goofy selves. "
10 " You can want one thing and have a secret wish for its opposite. "
11 " You can hold a secret, hold it so far in that it drives nearly every thought and every move you make- your very heartbeat, almost. "
12 " If happiness shouldn't make you so miserable, misery shouldn't make you so happy. "
13 " It was practically un-American to not set goals and then do everything you could, everything, to reach them. Quitting-it was a dirty word... "
14 " My subconscious speaks in a foreign language. "
15 " Things that came apart could be put together again, but never exactly the same. "
16 " The six rules of maybe 1. respect the power of hope and possibilites. Begin with beleif. Hold onto it. 2. If you known where you want to go, you're already half way there. Know what you desire but, more imporantly, why you desire it. Then go. 3. hopes and dreams and heart's desires require a clear path-get out of your own way 4. Place hope carefully in your own hands and in the hands of others 5. Persist, if necessary 6. That said, most importantly-know when you've reached an end, Quit, give up, do it with courage. Giving up is not failing-it's the chance to begin again. "
17 " You were supposed to have hope, right? You were supposed to respect its power and hold on. And so I did. I held, and held, and let hope fill me. But as the days went on, it seemed I could be holding for a long, long time. Hope could be the most powerful thing or the most useless "
18 " I would have spoken, had my heart not been in my throat "
19 " The hope was, people like me got to finally find our place in college or in the actual world. People who understood this told you that high school wasn't the actual world, that it was more like a temporary alternate reality you were forced to believe in for four years. A video game you played, where you could never get to the next level no matter how hard you tried. "
20 " I'd always thought telling the truth to other people was hard, but maybe that was a snap compared to telling the truth to yourself. Sometimes we just refused to know what we knew. "
