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1 " No one measures a life in weeks and days. You measure life in years and by the things that happen to you. "
― Sara Zarr , How to Save a Life
2 " My whole life has been one big broken promise. "
3 " It's as if once you hit high school, you're programmed, like a robot, to be an asshole to your parents. "
4 " I'm still going to love you, always. And in the rock-paper-scissors of life, love is rock. fear, anger, everthing else...no contest. "
5 " It's just so out of control. Life, I mean. The way it flies off in all these different directions without your permission. "
6 " And part of being American is respecting all people's right to be whatever they want to be and at the same time respecting your own right to bitch about it, as long as you're educated and can reason your way through your bitching. "
7 " It's a jagged thing in my throat, how much I miss her. "
8 " He felt it too, the air between us, the invisible lines that something or someone had drawn to connect us. That's the way I remember it. "
9 " Sometimes you should have something you don't need but that you want. "
10 " The kind of life I want is to be a person who would get a personal note every day. "
11 " That's how life feels to me. Everyone is doing it; everyone knows how. To live and be who they are and find a place, find a moment. I'm still waiting. "
12 " Try a little tenderness ... "
13 " I never had a connection like that to anyone, where every day you think about what you’ll tell them and you wonder what they’re doing, and you know they’re wondering what you’re doing. "
14 " Don't ask me how I am,' I blurt. 'Please.' I want to keep feeling good. Just because the lights are on doesn't mean I have to look. "
15 " Sometimes you want to hear your own mother's voice. "
16 " I'm remembering how this works. How life doesn't have to be only anxiety about what's gone wrong or could go worng, and complaints about the world around you. How a person you're excited about can remind you there's stuff going on beyond... routine oil changes and homework. Stuff that matters. Stuff to look forward to. "
17 " I don't yell back at my mother. When I'm angry or scared or upset, I don't yell. I stay quiet. I've seen how she is, how she would get with Kent and with me and with other people, life if someone at the pharmacy got in the wrong line or asked too long a question, or if someone on the bus accidentally bumped her. I've watched her my whole life, the way people react to her. It doesn't actually help you get what you want, yelling and being like that. It only makes people think bad of you. "
18 " Life doesn't have to be only anxiety about what's gone wrong, and complaints about the world around you. "
19 " Sometimes trust isn’t something you can just choose to do even if it makes sense. All my life the only reliable person, the one I could count on, the one who hasn’t abandoned me, is me. "
20 " Love is just a word we use to describe what boils down to a selfish and temporary state of happiness. "