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How to Be a Heroine QUOTES

How to Be a Heroine QUOTES

1 " After three years of English at Cambridge, being force-fed literary theory, I was almost convinced that literature was all coded messages about Marxism and the death of the self. I crawled out of the post-structuralist desert thirsty for heroines I could cry and laugh with. I was jaded. I craved trash. "

― Samantha Ellis , How to Be a Heroine

2 " I love the fact that Perrault's princess goes on living and struggling after she finds her prince, and that Perrault doesn't shrink from the weirdness of Sleeping Beauty being over a hundred years old but having the body of a lithe young thing. When the prince wakes her, he considers telling her she's wearing the kind of clothes his grandmother used to wear, but decides it's best not to mention it just yet. "

― Samantha Ellis , How to Be a Heroine

3 " Angela Carter who started bringing me back to fairy tales. Her revisionist stories, in The Bloody Chamber (1979), "

― Samantha Ellis , How to Be a Heroine

4 " At this point, harking back to the stuff about souls, Andersen bolts on a perplexing Christian salvation message about how the Little Mermaid can earn a soul if she is good for three hundred years, but every time she sees 'a rude, naughty child', she'll get more time in purgatory. Don't be rude or naughty or the mermaids will suffer? Please. Even as a child, I knew this was ridiculous. "

― Samantha Ellis , How to Be a Heroine

5 " I don't know if I'll get a happy ending. But why worry about a happy ending? Why worry about any ending at all? I don't know where I'm going next, and for the first time in forever, I don't want to. I want my life to be picaresque. Fantastical. I want to say yes and. "

― Samantha Ellis , How to Be a Heroine

6 " It's probably unwise to romanticize everything- and I'll probably always do it. "

― Samantha Ellis , How to Be a Heroine

7 " But you can't rescue people; you can only help them rescue themselves. "

― Samantha Ellis , How to Be a Heroine

8 " ...all readings are provisional, and that maybe we read heroines for what we need from them at the time. "

― Samantha Ellis , How to Be a Heroine

9 " I felt let down when I could see the writer too much at work on a character because it reminded me forcefully that of course I don't have a writer working on my story, guiding me to safety, bending the laws of reality for me, bringing me in a hero to rescue me or transporting me to a happier life by the stroke of her pen. No writer is writing me a better journey. No writer is guiding me through my misunderstandings and muddles and wrong turns to reach my happy ending. And then I realize I am the writer. ...we all write out our own lives. "

― Samantha Ellis , How to Be a Heroine

10 " All my heroines, yes, even the Little Mermaid, even poor, dull, listless Sleeping Beauty, have given me this sense of possibility. They made me feel I wasn't forced to live out the story my family wanted for me, that I wasn't doomed to plod forward to a fate predetermined by God, that I didn't need to be defined by my seizures, or trapped in fictions of my own making, or shaped by other people's stories. That I wanted to write my own life. "

― Samantha Ellis , How to Be a Heroine

11 " I wanted a love so intense it could send me into a brain fever or cause the man who loved me to gnash his teeth and dash his head against a tree till he bled. To dig up my grave and be so blinded by love that he'd swear that even after seven years in the ground my face was still my face, uncorrupted. "

― Samantha Ellis , How to Be a Heroine

12 " But maybe I've changed. Or at least: maybe I am changing. "

― Samantha Ellis , How to Be a Heroine

13 " I can't help thinking that a heroine should be able to love without being erased. "

― Samantha Ellis , How to Be a Heroine

14 " -maybe we read heroines for what we need from them at the time. "

― Samantha Ellis , How to Be a Heroine

15 " I don’t think anyone is ‘born to be a heroine’. It takes effort, valour, and a willingness to investigate your own heart. "

― Samantha Ellis , How to Be a Heroine

16 " Though I’m beginning to think all readings are provisional, and that maybe we read heroines for what we need from them at the time. "

― Samantha Ellis , How to Be a Heroine

17 " And then I realize I am the writer. I don't mean because I write. I mean because we all write our own lives. Scheherazade's greatest piece of storytelling is not the stories she tells, but the story she lives. "

― Samantha Ellis , How to Be a Heroine

18 " And yes and feels like the secret of life, not just improvisation. We have to keep making choices, keep transforming "

― Samantha Ellis , How to Be a Heroine

19 " We have to keep making choices, keep transforming. Scheherazade’s stories never end. Every story in the Nights opens a door that leads on to another story. I don’t know if I’ll get a happy ending. But why worry about a happy ending? Why worry about any ending at all? I don’t know where I’m going next, and for the first time in forever, I don’t want to. I want my life to be picaresque. Fantastical. I want to say yes and. "

― Samantha Ellis , How to Be a Heroine

20 " I was Isabella, fawning on Heathcliff. And no one wants to be Isabella. "

― Samantha Ellis , How to Be a Heroine