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1 " I write because there is nothing as joyful as writing, even when the writing is twisted and full of hate, the self-hate that makes writing not only possible but necessary. I hate myself, I hate the people around me, but what I crave is the fulfillment of some ideal. "
― Gary Shteyngart , Little Failure
2 " My mother is changing history. She is making her balalaika-smashing mother into a heroine. Does she want me to do the same for her? Is that what good children do for their parents? What about good writers? "
3 " Every moment I have ever experienced as a child is as important as every moment I am experiencing now, or will experience ever. I guess what I'm saying is that not everybody should have children. "
4 " I wonder what children whose parents have money think about in their spare time. "
5 " As every so-called creative spirit soon learns, the rest of the world doesn't particularly give a damn. "
6 " The truth is this: The rich will rule even at a place like Oberlin, where their kind is technically forbidden. They will simply invert the power structure to suit their needs. They will come out on top no matter what. Stuyvesant was hard but hopeful; Oberlin, on the other hand, reminds me yet again how the world works. I guess that's why they call it an education. "
7 " She folds the pages of the books she reads when she wants to remember something important. Her favorite books are accordions, testaments to an endless search for meaning. "
8 " I want to be loved so badly, it verges on mild insanity. "
9 " In America, the distance between wanting something and having it delivered to your living room is not terribly great. "
10 " I am a kind of joke, but the question is: which kind? My job is to keep everyone guessing. "
11 " Michigan, with its delicious American name. How lucky one must be to live there. "
12 " After all, this is America, and you can swap out the parts of yourself that don't work. You can rebuild yourself piece by piece. "
13 " Maybe this is who I really am.Not a loner, exactly.But someone who can be alone. "
14 " You are not what you want. You are what wants you back. "
15 " When a writer is born into a family, the family is finished'*--Czeslaw Milosz.*And, I might add, if the family isn't finished, then the writer is. "
16 " This red-fading-into-brown defines Queens for me; it is quiet and melancholy and postsuccessful, vaguely British in its disposition. "
17 " My mother cranes her neck. Her ability to be fascinated by things is her best gift to me. "
18 " I am born hungry. Ravenous. I want to eat the world, and I can never be satiated. "
19 " I am not good with others. "
20 " stockbrokers, secretaries, government functionaries—everybody back then was expected to have some kind of inner life. "