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1 " But Jesus said, “Not everyone is mature enough to live a married life. It requires a certain aptitude and grace. Marriage isn’t for everyone. Some, from birth seemingly, never give marriage a thought. Others never get asked—or accepted. And some decide not to get married for kingdom reasons. But if you’re capable of growing into the largeness of marriage, do it.” (Matthew 19:11-12 The Message, emphasis added) "
― John Bevere , The Story of Marriage
2 " We probably don’t have to convince you that your spouse isn’t perfect. No one is! But mistakes create opportunities for us to extend God’s grace. Our willingness to forgive is one of the greatest evidences of Christ within us. "
3 " it is important to seek godly counsel and the peace of the Spirit. But too often we believe Mr. or Ms. Right will miraculously fill all the gaping holes in our lives. No human being is up for that task. It’s a role only God can fill. And you can’t manage the condition of anyone else, reforming them into exactly what you think you need. What you can do is embrace God’s process of refinement and become a man or woman who selflessly lays down your life for your current or future spouse. In the process of laying down your life, you will discover more fulfillment than if you’d sought your own interests. "
4 " Remember that God has given you today and that the choices you make today will shape your tomorrow—not your yesterday. "