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1 " Healing doesn’t walk a linear line; it takes the messy route. I believe that healing comes during both the dark days and the bright ones. It’s not all rainbows. Sometimes healing means slicing open the scars that made you hurt so much before and examining them to fully understand yourself. Why did the cut hurt you in the past? How did it change you into who you are today? What can we learn from the pain of your yesterdays to better your tomorrows? "
― Brittainy C. Cherry , The Mixtape
2 " I’d learned quickly that motherhood meant saying no to yourself so you could later say yes to your child. "
3 " You probably feel like you’re falling apart, but in truth, this is you falling together, sweetheart. Sometimes, part of the healing journey involves falling apart. That doesn’t make you weak; it makes you strong. "
4 " When love met pain, beauty could be created. "
5 " Then there is no way we are poor. We have clothes on our backs, a roof over our head, a car to drive, and each other’s love. No one can be poor if they have love. "
6 " It was bullshit. They didn’t know me. How dare they throw their judgments from behind their keyboards as if they were saints. How dare they diminish the most important relationship in my life down to rumors and lies. How dare they hurt me without having a damn clue about how damaging words could be. If humans knew how damaging words could be to someone’s mental health and stability, then maybe they would’ve chosen them differently. Then again, maybe they liked the outcome. Maybe some sick fucks enjoyed hurting others in a way to make themselves feel better about their own shitty lives. "
7 " When did they give themselves to the darkness and pretend that they were praising God? "
8 " You don’t have to stay where things are familiar all the time. Sometimes the best way to move forward is to leave some things behind. "
9 " It was then that I realized that everyone had struggles that they tried their best to keep to themselves. "
10 " Everyone breaks sometimes. It’s a part of life. Sometimes we have to fall apart before we can fall back together. "
11 " The worst feeling in the world was coming to the realization that your idols were merely human themselves. "
12 " breaking her heart. I wondered if kids knew that when parents had to break their hearts, ours shattered more. "
13 " The oddest thing about life was how something could show up out of nowhere and change everything in a split second of time. "
14 " Sometimes it was easier to tell the truth to strangers "
15 " Our current situation was nowhere near as bad a place as I’d been in before, so I wouldn’t mope; I’d keep moving forward. It wasn’t a dark cave I was in—I was simply dealing with an overcast sky. At some point, the clouds would shift and the sun would shine again. Statistics never lied—at least that was my hope. Plus, there was some comfort knowing that the sun never truly left; it just stayed hidden some days. Until those clouds shifted, I turned to music. "
16 " Funny how when you took your depression and created art, it could help someone else who was struggling with their own demons. "
17 " those people who judge you the most are the ones who have never been close enough to you to hear your heartbeats. Their opinions don’t matter at all. They don’t get to define who you are with their lies. And every time you feel as if they are getting to you, I’m going to remind you of the truth.” “That’s not in your job description.” “You’re right, it’s not. It’s in my human description. That’s what humans are supposed to do. We’re supposed to look out for one another. "
18 " The hardest truth to learn in life was that not everyone loved the same way you did. I’d given my sister everything in the past, and all she’d given me was a dropped call. "
19 " So you already know the truth that so many people miss out on. True success comes from within. And that success is defined by being able to wake up and have gratitude. That’s the goal. Now, that’s not saying that everything is perfect when you are happy. That’s not what happiness is. Happiness, gratitude, is the ability to wake up and say, yes, some things in my life are hard right now, but I still get to feel good about one or two things. You get to choose joy, even when times are tough. That’s where we are going to get you. "
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