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1 " The truth was no way to make a good first impression. "
― Lisi Harrison , The Dirty Book Club
2 " She’s gay?” “No.” Addie reached for the burnt bagel, took a bite. “But she is human. "
3 " Love is accepting someone for who they are, not who they’ll be once you change them. Because guys won’t change unless they want to, and most of them don’t want to. If you think otherwise, you’re in for a shit-storm of disappointment. "
4 " I, like Ana, was seduced by the soft licks of hope into believing that I could change the man I loved. Then flogged by whip-sharp reminders that I couldn’t. So, like Anastasia, I turned myself over to grief and eventually came to accept that the only person I can change is myself. At which point, I got the help I needed, learned how to cut the ties that bound me to guilt, and set myself free. Shit happens is life’s dominant; wishful thinkers, its submissive. And happy endings? Well, they don’t come until we accept the sad ones. And so, Anastasia, with the help of this club, I did. "
5 " I clung to my belief the same way that Anastasia clung to hers. The idea that love and patience were enough to rid Christian of his vices and turn him into the man that he wasn’t—the man she wanted him to be—was just as naive. "
6 " How much torture will I endure in the name of love? "
