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1 " We hear a lot about identity theft when someone takes your wallet and pretends to be you and uses your credit cards. But the more serious identity theft is to get swallowed up in other people's definition of you. "
― Stephen R. Covey , The 3rd Alternative: Solving Life's Most Difficult Problems
2 " When man created the mirror, he began to lose his soul. He became more concerned with his image than with his self. "
3 " 我們的觀念其實是與自我認知盤根糾結的。如果我說自己是環保主義者或保守派或老師,我說的不僅是自己的信念或價值觀—我所描繪的是我是個什麼樣的人。因此,當你攻擊我這一方時,你攻擊的是我和我的自我形象。如果推到極端,自我認知的衝突甚至可以引發戰爭。 "
4 " 思維模式就像一張地圖,幫助我們決定自己要走的方向。我們所觀看到的地圖,決定了我們的行為,而我們的行為,則決定了我們會得到的結果。改變思維模式,我們的行為及所得的結果也將有所不同。 "
5 " 雖然有些思維地圖或許真的比別的地圖完整,但是沒有一張思維地圖是真正完整、真實的,因為地圖原本就不是真正的地形、地貌。 "