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1 " Even if a woman knows in her head that her husband finds her beautiful, she still needs to hear it. "
― Shaunti Feldhahn , For Men Only: A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women
2 " the person who listens well holds enormous power "
3 " She Just Wants You to Listen” = She Wants You to Focus on Her Feelings, Not the Problem "
4 " When things get personal, we need to resist the natural male instinct to run for cover, man the defenses, or--worst of all--reach for the big guns. Much better to set aside our natural defensiveness and focus on listening well even though we feel under attack. Because we're probably not. "
5 " So the first and most important step for Mr Fix-it is to listen for the right thing: how she feels about the emotional issue she's bringing to you. "