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1 " Smoking is an outward signal of inner turmoil or conflict and most smoking has less to do with nicotine addiction and more to do with the need for reassurance. "
― Allan Pease , The Definitive Book of Body Language
2 " People drink alcohol and take drugs to try to feelhow happy people feel normally. "
3 " Studies show that women laugh at men they're attracted to,and men are attracted to women who laugh at them. "
4 " Tie an Italian's hands behind his back and he'll be speechless. "
5 " As long as someone holds an arms-folded position,a negative attitude will persist. "
6 " The older we become, the more serious we becomeabout life. An adult laughs an average of fifteen times a daya preschooler laughs an average of four hundred times. "
7 " whether we realize it or not, we automatically copy the facial expressions we see. "
8 " By a man's fingernails, by his coat-sleeve, by his boots, by his trouser-knees, by the calluses of his forefinger and thumb, by his expression, by his shirt-cuffs, by his movements—by each of these things a man's calling is plainly revealed. That all united should fail to enlighten the competent enquirer in any case is almost inconceivable. SHERLOCK HOLMES, 1892 "
9 " Solitary confinement, where no others are in the prisoner's space, always has a calming effect. Violence from passengers on aircraft increased during the 1990's when the airlines started packing people close together in the seats to compensate for revenue lost as a result of price discounting. "
10 " attract more friends, and extend life. Humor heals. "
11 " Tilting the head to the side is a submission signal because it exposes the throat and neck and makes the person look smaller and less threatening. Its probable origin is in the baby resting its head on its parent's shoulder or chest, and the submissive, nonthreatening meaning it conveys seems to be unconsciously understood by most people, especially women. "
12 " How to Offend Other Cultures When it comes to inadvertently offending other cultures, Americans usually take first prize. As mentioned, most Americans don't have a passport and believe the rest of the world thinks like them and wants to be like them. "
13 " Head nodding has its origins in bowing to appear subordinate. "
14 " Women have an innate ability to pick up and decipher non-verbal signals, as well as having an accurate eye for small details. This is why few husbands can lie to their wives and get away with it and why, conversely, most women can pull the wool over a man's eyes without his realizing it." - The Definitive Book of Body Language by Allan Pease, Barbara Pease, page-13 "