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1 " People always talk about realizing they’re in love during the happy moments, but I think you realize it in the bad ones. The ones that knock you off center, scaring you when they prove that no matter what kind of logic is in your head, it’s what’s in your heart that determines fucking everything. "
― Carola Lovering , Tell Me Lies
2 " It’s funny—when you get what you want, it almost automatically decreases in value. "
3 " Love—real love—isn’t something you construct or hope or imagine or plan for the future. Love is something you live and feel in real time, in every single moment, big or small. It’s reciprocal and often unglamorous. But we bank on it because it’s what gives life meaning. "
4 " You know what they say—charm is the ability to make someone think that both of you are quite wonderful. "
5 " Well, time and space give you clarity, and sometimes you don’t realize things until . . . you do. "
6 " What many people fail to understand is that the world is carved by nature’s laws, not moral values. "
7 " didn’t know if I was addicted to the pain or if love was pain that you had to push through in order to access something greater, a final result you didn’t understand but stored your faith in. "
8 " Everyone has that guy, Luce. That one guy you think you’ll never be able to shake—the one who gets under your skin and epically fucks you up for a little while. I know I did. "
9 " The bartender appeared and asked what I wanted. I didn’t know or care. A bottle of Xanax. A loaded gun. I ordered a vodka tonic. "
10 " And all of a sudden I know, because when you figure out the truth you can feel it, hot and deep in your bones, "
11 " I swore that I’d never date anyone again unless I had that feeling—the feeling that everything had been flipped inside me, for the better. "
12 " Manipulation is not a bad word. It’s not a cynical mind-set. It’s a proactive approach to exploiting opportunities. "
13 " Don’t you want me to be happy? "
14 " I was still wired from the coke but felt the anxious onset of depression creeping in at the back of my brain, like a leech. "
15 " there was that sudden disturbance in the air again; it was almost everywhere now, as unmistakable as the smell of smoke. I suddenly had the overwhelming feeling that something terrible was going to happen, or had already happened, or was in the process of happening. "
16 " My heart felt empty and full at the same time. "
17 " What I’ve come to learn and what most people fail to understand is that love is a choice. If you assess the worth of your relationship solely in terms of your feelings it is likely to fail, or at least be extremely short-term. You cannot go on having these “feelings” for someone forever. With girls, the exciting part is winning their affection. That’s the fun. Then you have to choose who you’re going to love, backed by the reasons why. "