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Bad Mother: A Chronicle of Maternal Crimes, Minor Calamities, and Occasional Moments of Grace QUOTES

Bad Mother: A Chronicle of Maternal Crimes, Minor Calamities, and Occasional Moments of Grace QUOTES

1 " Even if i'm setting myself up for failure, I think it's worth trying to be a mother who delights in who her children are, in their knock-knock jokes and earnest questions. A mother who spends less time obseessing about what will happen, or what has happened, and more time reveling in what is. A mother who doesn't fret over failings and slights, who realizes her worries and anxieties are just thoughts, the continuous chattering and judgement of a too busy mind. A mother who doesn't worry so much about being bad or good but just recognizes that she's both, and neither. A mother who does her best, and for whom that is good enough, even if, in the end, her best turns out to be, simply, not bad. "

― Ayelet Waldman , Bad Mother: A Chronicle of Maternal Crimes, Minor Calamities, and Occasional Moments of Grace

2 " Let's all commit ourselves to the basic civility of minding our own business. Failing that, let's go back to a time when we were nasty and judgmental, but only behind one another's backs. "

― Ayelet Waldman , Bad Mother: A Chronicle of Maternal Crimes, Minor Calamities, and Occasional Moments of Grace

3 " There are times as a parent when you realize that your job is not to be the parent you always imagined you’d be, the parent you always wished you had. Your job is to be the parent your child needs, given the particulars of his or her own life and nature. "

― Ayelet Waldman , Bad Mother: A Chronicle of Maternal Crimes, Minor Calamities, and Occasional Moments of Grace

4 " A Good Father is characterized quite simply by his presence. He shows up. In the delivery room, at dinnertime (when he can), to school recitals and ball games (whenever it’s reasonably possible). He’s a good provider who is not above changing a diaper or wearing a Baby Björn. "

― Ayelet Waldman , Bad Mother: A Chronicle of Maternal Crimes, Minor Calamities, and Occasional Moments of Grace

5 " The single defining characteristic of iconic Good Motherhood is self-abnegation. Her children’s needs come first; their health and happiness are her primary concern. They occupy all her thoughts, her day is constructed around them, and anything and everything she does is for their sakes. "

― Ayelet Waldman , Bad Mother: A Chronicle of Maternal Crimes, Minor Calamities, and Occasional Moments of Grace