" What is your problem?
What’s keeping you stuck and upset?
Why do you blame other people?
Be honest with yourself. It’s not easy, but without doing this, you won’t go anywhere. Stop blaming other people. It doesn’t help. It doesn’t change the situation. Actually, it won’t even make you feel better. It’s a great waste of your time and energy. "

― Thabo Katlholo , Blame Less: A Grim Journey Into Life of a Chronic Blamer