" While it’s certainly true that life presents many difficulties, and undeniable the pain and suffering they often cause, to blame others as the reason for one’s unhappiness is to cast oneself in the role of the victim. For all those years I condemned myself to victimhood I lost so much of myself and so much of what I stood for. "

― Thabo Katlholo , Blame Less: A Grim Journey Into Life of a Chronic Blamer