" You know there's a history of unbalanced power, lack of safety and consent, that makes it different when it happens to a woman, right?"
"I do know that, even though it's not that simple. I hope you're not planning to accuse me of encouraging them and asking for it."
"You were, as a matter of fact, encouraging it greatly." Before he could argue, she raised a hand to stop him. "It was still inappropriate, the way my team behaved. I apologize and will reprimand them."
"There's no need for that."
"I know. But I will anyway. But the next time you pretend to know what it feels like to be violated by the unwelcome attention of the opposite sex, I want you to know that if as a result of it there was any chance that you could get hurt in any way, you should absolutely feel free to put an end to it by letting them know that you aren't interested and that it makes you uncomfortable. "

― Sonali Dev , The Emma Project (The Rajes, #4)