" We often hear of someone saying, ‘So you don’t trust me’ or ‘Are you questioning my integrity?’ or ‘You don’t believe me.’ They get defensive and angry because someone questions their actions, and they think they are above being questioned or having to prove their trustworthiness. But none of us is above questioning. "

― Henry Cloud , Safe People: How to Find Relationships That Are Good for You and Avoid Those That Aren't