" These words point in the right direction, but some of them, such as embarrassed, insulted, different, and ignored, can fade with time. Real shame requires more intensity. That’s why the language of this next list may make you want to turn away, but it’s much closer to shame. Unclean Dishonored Filthy Shunned Disgusting Defiled Outcast Unlovable Discarded Repulsive Disgraced Worthless Loathed Scorned Vile "
― Edward T. Welch , Shame Interrupted: How God Lifts the Pain of Worthlessness and Rejection