" That there could be something in the world that a woman could want more than children has been viewed as unacceptable. Things may be marginally different now, but, even if there is something she wants more than children, that is no reason for a woman to remain childless. Any normal woman, it is understood, wants—and should want—both. "

― Meghan Daum , Selfish, Shallow, and Self-Absorbed: Sixteen Writers on The Decision Not To Have Kids