" But I tried to ride out my first wave of “should-feel.” You know when you first hear bad news and your first reaction, for some reason is “OK” right before you flip your shit? Like you’re told you’re fired, or your parents are dead or the test results are positive. And you know that in a moment or two, it’s going to be a shitshow, because honest reactions come from the gut once the brain has chewed and swallowed. "

― , I Don't Care About Your Band: Lessons Learned from Indie Rockers, Trust Funders, Pornographers, Felons, Faux-Sensitive Hipsters, and Other Guys I've Dated