" No matter what I might give you, you’ll never owe me anything. That doesn’t mean I won’t ever ask anything from you, because I might ask a hell of a lot. When I get that ring on your finger, it means asking for your patience and your trust and your faith and your heart. But even if I ask for all that, you don’t owe it. You should only do it because you want to give it. Because it makes you happy to give it. And everything I do for you, it’ll be because I want to. Because it makes me happy. All right? "

― Kati Wilde , Secret Santa