" On reflection, I realized that I am the angry one, the ill-tempered one, the miser, and the liar. My job is to conquer me. My tool for doing so is to show warm-heartedness to others, especially when they are not showing it to me. Your opportunity when treated with contempt is to change at least one heart—yours. "

― Arthur C. Brooks , Love Your Enemies: How Decent People Can Save America from the Culture of Contempt