" If your fuck-giving actively affects someone else (such as declining to purchase a friend’s homemade peanut butter, or passing judgment on someone’s parenting choices), be honest and polite about your decision, try to make it about a difference of opinion, and 99 percent of the time, all will be well. "

― Sarah Knight , The Life-Changing Magic of Not Giving a F*ck: How to Stop Spending Time You Don't Have with People You Don't Like Doing Things You Don't Want to Do