QUOTE : that her husband ground the coffee beans in the garage so as not to wake her up.) He calls me at random times in the day just to hear my voice or to tell me he loves me. He kisses me goodbye before he leaves for work—or leaves for anywhere! He tells me I’m beautiful. He leaves little notes telling me he loves me. He charges my phone for me. He makes sure I’m drinking water and I’m hydrated. He puts gas in my car.