" The task of determining what to keep or give away is difficult enough to do for one’s self, let alone on behalf of a child who has died. It’s a task that seems to bore into the very meaning of grief, into the anguished battle between holding on and letting go, between staying moored to the past and allowing pieces of it to drift away. "

― Suleika Jaouad , Between Two Kingdoms: A Memoir of a Life Interrupted