" Long-term, sustained, gospel-motivated obedience can come only from faith in what Jesus has already done, not fear of what we must do. Any obedience not grounded in or motivated by the gospel is unsustainable. No matter how hard you try, how “radical” you get, any engine that you’re depending on for power to obey that is smaller than the gospel will conk out in due time. "

― Elyse M. Fitzpatrick , Give Them Grace: Dazzling Your Kids with the Love of Jesus