" [Society] is structured to distract people from the decisions that have a huge impact on happiness in order to focus attention on the decisions that have a marginal impact on happiness. The most important decision any of us make is who we marry. Yet there are no courses on how to choose a spouse. —David Brooks, political and cultural commentator "

― Meg Jay , The Defining Decade: Why Your Twenties Matter—And How to Make the Most of Them Now