" I have wondered if we're entering a period in which the line between valuing a woman in the face of mistreatment and valuing her because of that mistreatment is blurring; if the legitimate need to defend women from unfair criticism has morphed into an illegitimate need to defend women from criticism categorically; if it's become possible to praise a woman specifically because she is criticized for that featureless fact alone. "
― Jia Tolentino , Trick Mirror: Reflections on Self-Delusion